We're slowly settling into a new routine. He's coming over in the evenings after work to be with the kids, and he's doing dishes and other chores like a responsible adult!
Our relationship is cordial, but love is on hold. I don't want him to know how much I miss him. To miss him less I have been spending more time on the phone with girlfriends; that helps.
Most importantly, we are developing new, respectful communication patterns. Though we know each other well in some ways, our atrocious communication has given us erroneous views of each other and ourselves. Newlyweds, don't confuse talking with communication!
I've changed since he last checked. A lot. One of these days he's going to realize the little girl he married has grown up, and he was too busy thinking about boobs to notice.
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